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IMPAMVU YO GUTAKA, KUNIHA NO KWIRIZA KW’ABAKOBWA N’ABAGORE IYO BARIMO GUSWERWA

November 11, 2007

Biriya umukobwa aba yigirisha urimo kumuswera yitakisha, yiriza ntaho bihuriye n’ububabare n’agahinda! Kandi nta n’ubwo aba yigiza nkana, ntabwo aba abyikoresha, ibyishimo biba byamusabye umutima!

-ni ikimenyetso kigaragaza ko akwishimiye kandi agukunze. Ni ubona usweye umugore agataka, akiriza, uzamenye ko agukunda.

-aba yaryohewe. Iyo umuntu ababaye arataka yakwishima agataka cyangwa agaseka-umukobwa ashobora guseka murimo kubikora- cyangwa agakora ikintu kigaragaza ko yishimye)

-kuniha no kwiriza ni uburyo bwo guhumeka umuntu yitsa cyane kugira ngo aturize mu maboko y’umukunzi we, akomeze kugira umushyukwe-ubushake bwo guhuza igitsina bugume ku rwego rwo hejur; kandi aryoherwe n’igitsina (abantu baryoherwa n’igitsina cyane iyo batuje kandi baruhutse! Iyo badatuje hari ikibirunkana ntikibaryohera baba bafite ibindi bintu ku mutima.)

-ni icyubahiro aba aguhaye! ni uburyo bwo kukwereka ko ari umugore (arimo kurira no gutaka) wowe ukaba umugabo(ubugabo bwawe bumumurimo buratuma ataka-akwereka ko nta wabura gutaka umugabo amuri ho! Aba yicishije bugufi, abagabo birabashimisha. Nta washimishwa no guswera igishegabo, cyangwa igiswerabagabo. Iyo umugore aniha, yitakisha, aba akwereka ko atari kimwe muri byo maze kuvuga.

-umugore abyungukiramo! Iyo amaze kukwereka ko ari umugore, umwereka ko uri umugabo, ugakora iyo bwabaga! Ni nk’ikinamico buri muntu aba azi role ye! Bigutera imbaraga bigatuma mwese mugubwa neza.

-Hari ubwo ashobora gutaka ababaye, imboro yawe ndende yarenze uburebure bw’igituba cyangwa wahise ushyiramo atarabishaka neza, ushobora kumva agusabye kuba uretse kandi ni byiza ko muhuza ibitsina muganira kugira ngo umenye uko ahagaze. Niba mudashobora kuganira sinzi n’impamvu murimo guhuza ibitsina!

Umugore ashobora kandi gutaka agaragaza ibyishimo iyo utari bugufi n’abana yagucumita ugasa n’uwiterera hejuru. Iyo arangije uriruhutsa kugira ngo n’umugabo arangize afite ibyishimo.

Abagore baswerwa bacecetse baca intege abagabo ndetse bikavamo kubahurwa.

Iyo umugore atagukunda ntanakubahe uramuswera ntiyirize cyangwa ngo anihe? Urajombagura igiti gikoma iki! Nubona bikubayeho,uzahagarare wibaze. Utunganye ibidatunganye. Hari nubwo ataniha kubera ubujiji, atazi akamaro ka byo nuko bifasha umugabo kugira imbaraga.


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