GUSWERA BIBANZIRIZA MU UMUTWE

Ugomba kubanza guswera umugore mu mutwe mbere y’uko umuswera mu gituba.
Umugore agomba kubanza gutanga igituba mu ubwonko bw’umugabo mbere y’uko agiha imboro

ye.

Gutekereza ko guswera ari ikibazo cy’imboro n’igituba gusa ni ukwibeshya.

Ni yo mpamvu abagore benshi n’abagabo bananirwa gushyukwa no gusohora kenshi kuko baba batangiye nabi.

Umugabo agomba gutegura umugore mu mutwe. Ntamwereke ko amukunda gusa kuko yifuza kumusaba igituba. Ahubwo akaba ari bwo buzima bafite, ubuzima bwo gukundana no kwitanaho ku buryo bidasaba umugore imibare myinshi kugira ngo amenye niba umugabo amukunda koko. Iyo bimeze gutyo umugore ahora afite umunezero wo kumenya ko hari umuntu umukunda kandi umwitayeho. Umugore nk’uyu ntakurushya mu kuguha, upfa kumukoza urutoki mu gituba amazi akimisha, kuko aba yarateguwe. Umugore nk’uyu nta gukeneyeho imboro nini; ni wowe umuhagije kandi nta kindi yakugurana.

Ibi mvuze haruguru ni ukuri no ku mugabo. Umugabo agomba kumenya ko akunzwe kandi YUBASHYWE n’umugore. Abagabo bakunda ICYUBAHIRO, abagore bagakunda GUKUNDWA. Iyo rero umugabo azi ko yubashywe n’umugore, yerekana ubugabo bwe akita ku rugo. Ariko iyo azi ko ari insuzugurwa nta gaciro afite ntashobora no gushyukirwa umugore we. N’iyo ashyutswe ashobora kutarangiza.N’iyo arangije ntaryoherwa no guswera. Igituba abagabo baragikunda nyamara ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu igituba.

Ntabwo rero ingo zubakirwa ku gitanda gusa, ahubwo imyitwarire ya buri munsi hanze y’igitanda ni yo ikubwira uko mu gitanda hazamera. None se uyobewe ko iyo mwiriwe mushihurana mugera mu gitanda mugaterana ibibuno aho kwerekerana ngo mwendane dore ko aberekeranye batabura kwendana kandi
ushaka umushaka asanga umweko woroshye
, nyamara iyo nta kajyamo usanga umweko yawujishe wanawuzituza ko wamukoye amatako akanga gufunguka akiryamira nk’umutumba.

Urashaka guhaza umugore wawe? Urashaka kumenya uko batanga igituba? Va ku giti dore umuntu. BAHERA MU MUTWE, NTIBAHERA MU MAGURU!

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