DORE UKO BATANGA IGITUBA

uko-batanga-igituba

Iyo umugore n’umugabo
barimo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina baba barimo guhana, araguha ukamuha. Ariko bamwe babyumva nabi, hari abagore bumva ko muri uwo mukino niba yemeye gutanga igituba aba ari nkaho ari ibiryo ashyize ku isahani akigendera umuswezi/umugabo agasigara yirwanaho.

Si uko biri, niba ushaka ko umugabo wawe “agupfira”,agukunda, ntararamire abandi bagore ugomba kumenya “kumuswera”,kumushimisha ukamumara ishwira nawe ku buryo avuga ati “igituba nk’iki nta handi nagikura, umugore nk’uyu namukura he?” kandi n’ubikora neza no kubikubwira azabikubwira si umugani. Birashimisha iyo umugore yumvise umugabo amurata.

Abagabo bakunda umugore baswera abereka ko abikunze kandi ko yari babyiteguye babishaka cyane, icyo gihe umugabo yumva afite imbaraga zo kwerekana aho abera umugabo, nawe mugore jya uhita umwereka aho ubera umugore, akurongore, umurongore.

-Ntukabwire umugabo ijambo ribi mwatangiye umuhango wo gukundana nko kumubaza ibya Nyirakanaka cyangwa ngo uzamure ibindi bibazo mufitanye-ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu gituba,

-ntukaryame nk’umutumbajya uniha kandi utake uko umugabo arimo kuguswera kandi ukurikirane ibyo arimo gukora umufasha.

-jya ugira isuku y’igituba n’umubiri muri rusange

Reka nkuzimurire ibintu 5 umugabo umwe yambwiye ko aba yifuza ku mugore arimo guswera:

1. Kuba yarakunnye
(birebire)(iki ni igitekerezo cye abagabo ntibakunda bimwe, ushobora kuba utarakunnye ugashimisha umugabo no kurusha uwakunnye-abagore bose ntibakunnye si wowe wenyine)

2. Kuba anyara(nawe ushobora kunyara!)

3. Kuba ataka arimo guswerwa, aniha kubera uburyohe bwinshi (rimwe na rimwe akavuza n’ibihozo mu gihe njye mvuza amahamba)

4. Kuba anyonga ndetse akanamfasha mu kumuswera(kuba abwira umugabo ahamuryohera,bakabiganiraho)

5. Kuba atega amaguru (igituba) neza.

2 Responses to “DORE UKO BATANGA IGITUBA”

  1. ntacyabukura blaise Says:

    ndashaka amafoto

  2. jean d Says:

    ndashaka ko munyigisha kutarangiza vuba

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