AMATEKA YO KWIKINISHA

AMATEKA YO KWIKINISHA

Kwikinisha ni ugukinisha igitsina cyawe (imboro yawe, igituba cyawe cyangwa ikindi gice cy’umubiri nka Rugongo, amabere, umwoyo n’ahandi bifitanye isano n’igitsina kugira ngo uvanemo uburyohe bw’igitsina nta wundi muntu mufatanyije kugeza ubwo ushobora gusohora.). Kwikinisha bakunze kubyita KWIKUNDA(KWISHIMISHA KU GITSINA URI WENYINE).Kwikinisha ntibiboneka mu bantu gusa. Inyamanswa nyinshi na zo zirikinisha ndetse hari n’izikorera ibikoresho byabugenewe.

INKOMOKO Y’IJAMBO KWIKINISHA(MASTURBATION)

Iri jambo KWIKINISHA bamwe bita gutina, kwitinanga, gutinura n’andi mazina mu gifaransa no mu cyongereza ni “Masturbation”. Rikomoka ku kigereki “μεζεα” risomwa ngo “mezea” rigasobanura Imboro mu bwinshi. Rikomoka kandi ku Kilatini “manus” bivuga “ukuboko” na “turbare” bisobanura “kubuza amahoro”.Mu by’ukuri rero ijambo “masturbation” risobanura “kubuza imboro amahoro ukoresheje intoki”.

UBURYO BWO KWIKINISHA

1.Umuntu ashobora kwikinisha akoresheje intoki ze cyangwa

2.ibikoresho byabugenewe nk’imboro z’amaplastique, cyangwa ibituba by’amaplastique n’utundi dukoresho umuntu yishakira kugira ngo asohore ari wenyine bitamugoye.

3.Hari n’abagerageza gukinisha imboro zabo bakoresheje n’utumashini bacomeka mu mashanyarazi bita “electric vibrators”, bashobora kwinjiza mu gituba cyangwa mu ,mu mwoyo .Mu kwikinisha ibitsina byombi bishobora kwishunanashuna gahorogahoro ku moko n’ahandi. Hari n’abakoresha amavuta yabugenewe ngo barusheho kuryoherwa.

4.Akenshi abikinisha bo mu bitsina byombi bakunze gusoma ibitabo biganira ibyo guswerana,bakareba filime zo guswera cyangwa bakibuka abakunzi bigeze kubikorana cyangwa abantu bifuza cyane mu mutima wabo kugira ngo bibafashe kwikinisha- ibyo babyita “fantaisie” mu gifaransa cyangwa se “fantasizing” mu cyongereza. Ariko hari n’ubundi buryo bwo kwikinisha bubi cyane nko kwibuza guhumeka no kwibabaza bushobora kugira ingaruka mbi.

5.Hari abagabo bashimishwa no kwijomba utuntu nk’amakaramu na za “termometre” mu kayoboro gacamo inkari n’amasohoro(urethre) ariko ibi ni bibi kuko ushobora kwikomeretsa cyangwa ukitera indwara nko kunyara bikugoye.

Hari abikinisha bajya gusohora bakaba baretse, bakabikora inshuro nyinshi
bigatuma basohora cyane.

Si byiza kwikinisha ngo nugeza igihe cyo gusohora ubireke burundu. Bishobora gutuma wumva umerewe nabi ku bw’imitsi yo mu kiziba cy’inda iba yireze. Ukicwa n’umushyukwe!

KWIKINISHA KU BAGABO

Kwikinisha kw’abagabo kuratandukanye. Biterwa n’ibyo umuntu ahisemo kandi biterwa niba umugabo akebye cyangwa adakebye.

Bumwe mu buryo abagabo babikoramo ni:

1.gufata imboro mu ntoki utayikomeje cyane ukajya uzamura umanura ku ruti rwayo kugeza usohoye. Uburyo umuntu amanukamo azamuramo bugenda burushaho kwihuta uko yegera gusohora.

2.Hari n’abaryama bunamye kuri matora bakayikubaho imboro kugeza basohoye.

3.Hari n’abakoresha igituba cya plastique bakagisweramo.

4.Hari abakoresha amaboko yose bikinisha abandi bagakoresha ukuboko kumwe mu gihe bakoresha ukundi bikinisha amabya cyangwa imoko mu gihe basa n’abaswera mu ntoki zabo bigana uko umuntu aswera mu buryo busanzwe.

5.Hari n’abagabo n’abahungu b’abahanga bashobora kwikinisha bakoresheje umunwa n’ururimi rwabo.

KWIKINISHA KU BAGORE

Soma Isomo ryo Kwikinisha ku Bagore n’Abakobwa

KWIKINISHA BITANGIRA RYARI?

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko 81% y’igitsina gabo gitangira Kwikinisha hagati y’imyaka 10 na 15; mu gitsina gore ni 55%. Na none kandi ngo mu bagore 18% batangira kwikinisha bafite imyaka 10, 6% bagatangira kwikinisha bafite imyaka 6.
Mu rwego rw’igitsina cy’abana abana bakunze kukwikorakora ku gitsina ugasanga ababyeyi babawira ngo “rekura aho wa cyana we!”

Igitsina gabo kigera ku gasongero ko kwikinisha iyo kigeze hagati y’imyaka 21 na 28. Iki ni igihe kigoye ku basore n’abagabo muri ino myaka. Ngo bashobora gusohora nibura inshuro 18 no kurenga ku munsi! Ubushakashatsi kandi bwerekana ko hafi abagabo bose bikinisha buri munsi kugeza ni bura ku myaka 20 no hejuru.

Ku bakobwa hagati y’imyaka 13 na 17 bikinisha nibura rimwe ku munsi ariko abagore bakuze ngo bikinisha nibura 8-9 ku kwezi ugereranyije n’inshuro 18-22 ku bagabo. Abasore benshi biyemerera ko basohora 6 ku munsi naho abakuze bavuga bumva bashaka kwikinisha nibura rimwe ku munsi.

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko abagabo bafite abagore bakunze kwikinisha ariko ko abagore bafite abagabo badakunze kwikinisha.

Abantu bakunze gutekereza ko abantu badafite abakunzi cyangw a abo bashakanye ari bo bikinisha cyane nyamara ukuri ni uko n’abafite abo bahuza igitsina mu buryo busanzwe bikinisha kenshi.

KWIKINISHA MU MICO INYURANYE

Mu mico imwe n’imwe nk’iy’Abahopi bo muri Arizona, aba Wojeno bo muri Oceania n’ababeninois bashyigikira kandi bagatera inkunga umuco wo kwikinisha cyane cyane mu bahungu.

Mu mico imwe ya Melanesia abasore bato bakunze kwikinishanya n’abasaza. Muri Nouvelle Guinee, mu bwoko bw’Abasambia bafite imihango abahungu bakora berekana ko bakuze irimo no kwikinisha bagasohora! Nyamara ariko baha agaciro kanini amasohoro ku buryo bikinisha n’umunwa bakamira amasohoro kuko ngo kuyareka akagwa hasi ari ukwangiza. Banywa amasohoro ngo kuko afite ingufu kandi bayafata nk’amashereka y’umubyeyi.

Mu yindi mico, mu muhango umuhungu akora wo kwerekana ko akuze, akinishwa n’umutware w’ubwoko kugeza asohoye bikagaragara ko rero umwana yakuze. Mu bwoko bwitwa Agta bwo muri Philippines, abana batozwa kwikinisha bakiri bato.

IBYIZA BYO KWIKINISHA

-kwikinisha bituma umugore ashobora gusohora bitamugoye kuko aba azi umubiri we agafasha umugabo we kumuhaza.

-bifite icyo bihindura mu gituba, umwinjiriro wa nyababyeyi na nyababyeyi ubwayo ku buryo byoroshya isama.

-ku bagabo, kwikinisha bituma umugabo asohora amasohoro ya kera hakaboneka amasohoro mashya ashobora kugira imbaraga zo gutera inda kuruta akuze.

-abaganga b’ibibazo byo mu mutwe bemeza ko kwikinisha bigabanya agahinda, ibibazo byo mu mutwe bikanatuma umuntu yumva afite agaciro mu buzima(Hurlbert & Whittaker, 1991).

– mu mubano aho umwe ashaka igitsina kurusha undi, bituma utahaze arangiza ibibazo bye nta ngorane.

– gukinishanya, bituma abakunzi bamenya imibiri ya bagenzi babo bakamenya ikibashimisha mu guhuza igitsina.

– nk’uko Dr Graham Giles wa The Cancer Council Australia abihamya, kwikinisha no gusohora kenshi bigabanya ibyago byo kwandura cancer ya prostate

-Kwikinisha abantu benshi bamaze kubihitamo no kubikunda kuko bituma umuntu ashobora gushimishwa n’igitsina atarinze agorwa n’ingoruka zo guhuza igitsina n’undi muntu.

Kwikinisha bivura kubura ibitotsi

IBIBI BYO KWIKINISHA

-guhindurwa umugaragu no kwikinisha
-kwikinisha kubera ko wabuze ikindi ukora
-isoni ziuruka ku kwikinisha

KWIKINISHA MU MATEKA

Hari amashushusho y’abagabo bikinisha yashushanyijwe ku ntare(ubuke-urutare) hirya no hino ku isi

Urujyo rwatoraguwe hafi y’ingoro y’imana zo muri Malta rwo mu kinyagihumbi cya 4 mbere y’iki gihe turimo(igihe cy’ivuka rya Yezu) cyerekana umugore arimo kwikinisha.

Mu Basumeri bo muri Mespotamiya(Ubu ni Iraq) kwikinisha byari uburyo bwo kwerekana imbaraga.

Mu Misiri, iyo imana zikinishaga zigasohora byagaragaraga nk’uburyo bwo kurema. Bivugwa ko imana Atum yaremye isi imaze kwikinisha no gusohora! Kandi bivugwa ko burya ngo amazi ya Nil ari amasohoro yayo. Wasanga umutwe w’imboro y’iyo mana Atum uba mu Rwanda, ari rwo soko ya Nil

Abagereki bo bemezaga ko kwikinisha ari byiza ndetse biruta ubundi buryo bwo gushimishwa n’igitsina. Babonaga ko ari byiza bituma ntawicwa n’umushyukwe ngo yiruke inyuma y’abagore cyangwa abagabo.

Umwanditsi Diogenes, ahamya ko kwikinisha byaremwe n’imana Hermes, imaze kugirira umwana wayo Pan impuhwe amaze kugerageza kureshya Echo ngo amuhe igituba akanga. Nuko imana Hermes yigisha umwana wayo Pan ibanga ryo kwikinisha ngo ajye yirangiriza ibibazo adakomeje guteshwa umutwe n’inkumi z’ibizungerezi.Pan nawe yahise yigishe iryo banga inshuti ze z’abashumba.

ICYO ABANYABITEKEREZO (PHILOSOPHES)BAVUGA KU KWIKINISHA

Immanuel Kant asanga kwikinisha bidakwiriye ari ukwitesha agaciro, ariko agasanga nta mpamvu igaragara yatuma umuntu avuga ko bibujijwe. Ahubwo ngo k’umuntu aba yimanuye ntiyihangane agakora ibishimisa n’inyamanswa.(ndlr-ahari yari yibagiwe ko turi ubwoko bw’inyamanswa). Nyuma yuko abaphilosophes bananiwe no kwerekana ko kwikinisha ari bibi, wabaye umwanya w’abaganga guharanya kwikinisha.

UBUVUZI NO KWIKINISHA

Mu 1716, i Londres mu Bwongereza hasohotse tract yitwa Onania(Bikomoka kuri Onan wo muri Bibiliya wasohoreye hanze ngo adatera inda umugore wa mwene se akabyara umwana utari uwe akabihanirwa n’Imana.) Muri iyo tract umwanditsi avuga ko kwikinisha ari icyaha cyo kwitesha agaciro kandi bitera umuntu kudashyukwa, gonorrhea n’izindi ndwara.

Mu 1760,Umusuwisi Samuel-Auguste Tissot, mu gitabo cye L’Onanisme, nawe ahamya ko kwikinisha bigira ingaruka mbi ku mubiri.

Byageze aho bakora amakabutura y’abahungu atabemerera kwikora ku gitsina bacishije ikiganza mu mufuka, intebe zo ku mashuri zitemerera abana kubumba amaguru no kubuza abakobwa gutwara amagare n’indogobe kuko byatuma bumva uburyohe mu gitsina bigatuma bikinisha. Abahungu n’abakobwa byagaragaraga ko bikinisha bavugwaga ko bafite “roho zoroshye.”

Ibihano na byo byari biteye ubwoba; harimo kubabaza uwikinishije bamushyize ku mashanyarazi, uwananiranye bakamukona!Gukeba abana bakivuka byarakoreshejwe kuko ngo imboro ikebye ntibyoroshye kuyikinisha. Nyuma abantu baje kujya batera ubwoba abikinisha bababwira ko bazaba impumyi, bazamera ubwoya ku mubiri wose nk’ibikoko,kandi iryo terabwoba n’ubu riracyakoreshwa.

Uko ubuvuzi bubona ikibazo cyo kwikinisha byagiye bihinduka uko imyaka yagiye icaho. Mu mwaka w’1897, H. Havelock Ellis, mu gitabo cye Psychology of Sex, arwanya ibitekerezo bya Tissot wavugaga ko kwikinisha ari bibi cyane. H. Havelock Ellis atanga ilisiti y’abantu b’ibirangirire bo mu gihe cye bikinishaga. Yavuze ko “Kwikinisha mu rugero, mu bantu basanzwe badafite ibindi bibazo by’ubuzima, nta ngaruka bishobora kubatera.”

Hagati ya 1940-1950,Alfred Kinsey , umuganga mu by’ibitsina ahamya ko kwikinisha ari ibintu byiza mu buryo bwa kamere mu bahungu n’abakobwa.

Mu 1994, Muganga Mukuru w’Amerika,Dr. Joycelyn Elders, yirukanywe ku kazi na Perezida Bill Clinton amaze kuvuga ko kwikinisha bigomba kwigishwa mu mashuri kandi abana bakabwirwa ko nta cyo bitwaye.

INKURU BIFITANYE ISANO

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Icyo Ubushakashatsi Buvuga Ku Kwikinisha

Ibinyoma ku Kwikinisha

Mbese Kwikinisha Hari Icyo Byantwara?

Mbese Abagabo Bafite Abagore Barikinisha?

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