POSISIYO Y’IBIYIKO

-umugore yiryamira bisanzwe ku rubavu

-umugabo akamuryama mu mugongo amwerekeye,akamwinjiza imboro mu igituba aturutse inyuma

-imibiri yabo iba yegeranye cyane

-umugabo ashobora gukorakora umugore mu mugongo,ku amabere,mu gituba,kuri rugongo n’ahandi yifuza kugira ngo yongerere umugore uburyohe.

-position yoroshye ku bantu barimo kwiruhukira

-mushobora no gusinzira gutyo mukazakomeza guswerana n’ejo

-bayita iy’ibiyiko kuko imibiri iba yegeranye nk’ibiyiko bafatanyije

Posisiyo ya Missiyoneri-UMUGABO HEJURU


Abamisiyoneri baje bigisha ko umugore agomba kujya hasi umugabo akajya hejuru, ngo niko Imana ibishaka! Ngo naho izindi positions ni ubunyamanswa!Iyi position abantu benshi barayikunda kuko

*ntivunanye
*ituma imibiri ikoranaho
*ituma imboro igera kure mu gituba
*abantu bashobora gufatana bagasomana

Babigenza bate?

*Umugore aryama agaramye, akegura amavi ye agatambikiza,agafungura igituba cye. Umugabo ashobora kuryama hejuru y’umugore niba bitavuna umugore cyangwa akishingikiriza amavi ye cyangwa amaboko

*Umugore ashobora kuzengurutsa amaguru ye umugabo mu mugongo,cyangwa akayazamura akayishyira ku rutugu rw’umugabo.Uko amaguru y’umugore azamuka cyane ni nako imboro irushaho kumwinjiramo cyane mu igituba.

Umugore, kubera ko amaboko ye aba abohotse ashobora gutangira gukaresa umugabo cyangwa agatangira kwikinisha kuri rugongo.

*Ni position nziza kuko baba barebana,basomana,bakaresanya.

*Hari abagore badakunda ino position kuko ituma abagabo babacumita bakageza kure.

POSISIYO UMUGORE HEJURU

-Umugabo aryama agaramye umugore akishinga (igituba) ku mboro yareze.

-Umugore yicara makeri hejuru y’imboro areba umugabo

-Umugore ashobora gupfukama,akishyigikiriza inkokokora akegera umugabo akamusoma,agasa n’aho ariwe urimo guswera umugabo

-Umugore ashobora kwicara ku mboro,ateye umugabo ibitugu,ibi bituma imboro y’umugabo yinjira mu mugore cyane ikagera kure.

-Umugore ,yicaye hejuru y’imboro ashobora kuryama n’umubiri we wose hejuru y’umugabo,bituma bumva begeranye cyane kandi bakundanye.

-Iyo umugore ari hejuru,ni we wicungira uburyo aswerwamo,akimenyera aho imboro igarukira,akamenya n’uburyo yicumitisha imboro.Umugore mbese aba capitene w’ikipe.

Iyi postion ituma kandi:

-imboro yikuba kuri rugongo bigatuma umugore aryoherwa cyane

-abagore barangiza vuba kuko baba baryohewe cyane

-amaboko arekuye ku buryo akaresa rugongo
-abarimo kubonana baba barebana

Icyitonderwa:

-Abagore bamwe ntibayikunda kuko ituma imboro ibinjiramo ikagera kure,ariko umugore ashobora kugereranya akareba imboro imukwiriye ntiyibambe cyane ku mboro yareze.

-kubera iyinjira n’isohoka ry’uruva n’uruza rw’imboro mu igituba,imboro ishobora kunyerera ikavamo,cyangwa ikijomba ahantu ku buryo byababaza umugabo-ni ukwitonda rero

-iyi position ni nziza ku mugore wabanje gushyukwa cyane

POSISIYO KURYAMA BAREBANA

-Umugabo n’umugore baryama barebana

-umugore azamura ukuguru kumwe umugabo akamuryama ku kibero hagati y’amaguru akamushyiramo imboro

-umugore ashobora kuzengurutsa umugabo amaguru mu mugongo akajya amwikururiraho. Bituma imboro y’umugabo igera kure mu igituba cy’umugore

-ni nziza ku mugore utwite

-ntabwo igoye

POSISIYO GUHENESHA

Iyi position itandukanye no guswera mu kibuno Muri ino position,umugabo yinjiza imboro mu igituba aturutse inyuma.

Babikora bate?

-Umugore arapfukama akinshingikiriza amaboko,umugabo nawe akamupfukama inyuma akamusobeka imboro mu igituba.Bituma imboro ishobora kugera kure mu igituba cy’umugore.

-Umugore ashobora guhena yishingikirije ikintu nk’urukuta,intebe,inkingi,n’ibindi,umugabo akamuhagarara inyuma akamwinjiza imboro mu gituba.

-bashobora no kubikora baryamye,umugore imbere,umugabo akamwinjirira inyuma.

Iyi position iraryoha cyane kuko yemerera umugabo gukaresa ikibuno cy’umugore,amabere,rugongo n’ahandi kugira ngo aryohereze umugore we,ashobora no kumusoma mu mugongo,anitegereza uko yariboye.Baba begeranye cyane bikabashimisha.


UBUNDI BURYO BWO GUHENESHA

Umugore aryama yubitse inda,umugabo akamushyira imboro mu gituba akamuryama hejuru yishingikirije amaboko ye.

GUSWERA NK’ABOGA

Abagore benshi bakunda iyi position ku buryo ituma baryoherwa cyane bakaba basohora umugabo atagombye kuzunguza imboro kuri rugongo. Ni position nziza yo gusomana no kwegeranya imibiri.

1.Umugabo aryama agaramye, agafungura amaguru ye.

2.Umugore amuryama hejuru n’umubiri wose , amaguru ye hejuru y’ay’umugabo.

3.Umugore ni we uswera umugabo akanamenya imboro imwinjiramo uko ingana,agenda azamuka, amanuka nko guswera bisanzwe.