POSISIYO UMUGORE HEJURU

-Umugabo aryama agaramye umugore akishinga (igituba) ku mboro yareze.

-Umugore yicara makeri hejuru y’imboro areba umugabo

-Umugore ashobora gupfukama,akishyigikiriza inkokokora akegera umugabo akamusoma,agasa n’aho ariwe urimo guswera umugabo

-Umugore ashobora kwicara ku mboro,ateye umugabo ibitugu,ibi bituma imboro y’umugabo yinjira mu mugore cyane ikagera kure.

-Umugore ,yicaye hejuru y’imboro ashobora kuryama n’umubiri we wose hejuru y’umugabo,bituma bumva begeranye cyane kandi bakundanye.

-Iyo umugore ari hejuru,ni we wicungira uburyo aswerwamo,akimenyera aho imboro igarukira,akamenya n’uburyo yicumitisha imboro.Umugore mbese aba capitene w’ikipe.

Iyi postion ituma kandi:

-imboro yikuba kuri rugongo bigatuma umugore aryoherwa cyane

-abagore barangiza vuba kuko baba baryohewe cyane

-amaboko arekuye ku buryo akaresa rugongo
-abarimo kubonana baba barebana

Icyitonderwa:

-Abagore bamwe ntibayikunda kuko ituma imboro ibinjiramo ikagera kure,ariko umugore ashobora kugereranya akareba imboro imukwiriye ntiyibambe cyane ku mboro yareze.

-kubera iyinjira n’isohoka ry’uruva n’uruza rw’imboro mu igituba,imboro ishobora kunyerera ikavamo,cyangwa ikijomba ahantu ku buryo byababaza umugabo-ni ukwitonda rero

-iyi position ni nziza ku mugore wabanje gushyukwa cyane

POSISIYO GUHENESHA

Iyi position itandukanye no guswera mu kibuno Muri ino position,umugabo yinjiza imboro mu igituba aturutse inyuma.

Babikora bate?

-Umugore arapfukama akinshingikiriza amaboko,umugabo nawe akamupfukama inyuma akamusobeka imboro mu igituba.Bituma imboro ishobora kugera kure mu igituba cy’umugore.

-Umugore ashobora guhena yishingikirije ikintu nk’urukuta,intebe,inkingi,n’ibindi,umugabo akamuhagarara inyuma akamwinjiza imboro mu gituba.

-bashobora no kubikora baryamye,umugore imbere,umugabo akamwinjirira inyuma.

Iyi position iraryoha cyane kuko yemerera umugabo gukaresa ikibuno cy’umugore,amabere,rugongo n’ahandi kugira ngo aryohereze umugore we,ashobora no kumusoma mu mugongo,anitegereza uko yariboye.Baba begeranye cyane bikabashimisha.

UBUNDI BURYO BWO GUHENESHA

Umugore aryama yubitse inda,umugabo akamushyira imboro mu gituba akamuryama hejuru yishingikirije amaboko ye.

GUSWERA NK’ABOGA

Abagore benshi bakunda iyi position ku buryo ituma baryoherwa cyane bakaba basohora umugabo atagombye kuzunguza imboro kuri rugongo. Ni position nziza yo gusomana no kwegeranya imibiri.

1.Umugabo aryama agaramye, agafungura amaguru ye.

2.Umugore amuryama hejuru n’umubiri wose , amaguru ye hejuru y’ay’umugabo.

3.Umugore ni we uswera umugabo akanamenya imboro imwinjiramo uko ingana,agenda azamuka, amanuka nko guswera bisanzwe.

GUSWERA MAKERI

Iyi position ni nziza iyo umugore amaze kuruha kubera ibiro b’umugabo hejuru ye. Kandi bituma umugabo atamwitsindagira ku nda igihe arimo gucumitana imbaraga

1.Umugore apfukama atandaraje akunama asa n’uryamye ku buriri, igituba kikaza inyuma

2.Umugabo atangira kumuswera anamukorakora mu mugongo, ku ambere no kuri rugongo

GUSWERA UHAGAZE

Ubwo buryo bwo guswera bukunze gukoreshwa mu gihe abantu bihuta, nta handi hantu heza bafite.

Akenshi baswerana bambaye imyenda. Umugore aba yegamiye inzu cyangwa igiti agasa n’utambikiza ahagaze. Umugabo nawe akamwegera cyane akamusobekamwo imboro mu igituba agatangira gucumita.

Ubwo buryo ni ubwo kwitondera kuko bushobora gutuma umugabo akomereka kuko umwenge w’igituba cy’umugore uba udafunguye neza. Ikindi n’uko umugabo adashimisha umugore namba.

Icyitonderwa: mutitonze mwese mwahirima kuko iyo murangije amaguru ntaba afata hasi kubera ubwugugu

Igituba n’imboro bigomba kuba biri kuri niveau imwe. Iyo atari uko umugufi ahagara ku kintu kugira ngo ibitsina bijye kuri niveau imwe.

GUSWERA BUKA CYANGWA GUHENESHA

guswera-buka

Ni uburyo buryoha nabwo. Umugore arunama cyangwa agapfukama maze igituba kikaza imyuma; umugabo nawe akamuturuka inyuma akayimujomba maze ibiganza bye bikamufata mu matako ibikumwe bye byombi bigahurira mu ruti rw’umugongo nuko agacumita yimya buka kandi
ashobora kunyuza urutoki hejuru y’iyasha maze ukaguma umukora kuri rugongo ari nako umucumita imvanyuma.

Umugabo agomba kwitonda kuko arangaye yacumita imboro mu nnyo.Ubu buryo ntibukoreshwa ku bagore n’ababakobwa bafite udutuba duto kuko imboro itajyamo neza.

GUSWERA BITA KWIBAMBA

GUSWERA-KWIBAMBA

Ubwo buryo bwo guswera ni bwiza kandi burashimisha. Abagore bafite ibibero bashimisha abagabo kuko bituma umugabo aswera umugore abyitegereza bikamushimisha kuko aba areba uko yariboye! Hari n’abemeza ko buryoha cyane.

Umugabo agarama ku buriri umugore akamujya hejuru agafata imboro y’umugabo akayicumita mu igituba akajya ayijombaho amanuka azamuka. Umugabo na we akamunyongera kugeza bose barangize.

Ubwo buryo bwo guswera si bwiza ku basore n’inkumi batabimenyereye kuko bishobora kubabaza umusore n’inkumi.

Ni byiza kureka umugore akaba ariwe wishyirira imboro mu gituba kuko bituma yipimira imboro imujyamo bikamutera uburyohe bigatuma arushaho gukunda umugabo.

Ni byiza gukoresha buno buryo umugore yabanje gushyukwa cyane kugira ngo atababara.

GUSWERA BITA KUVUMBIKA

Ni bwo buryo bwo guswera abantu benshi bakunda gukoresha cyane.

Bukoreshwa n’abamaze guswerana nka kabiri cyangwa gatatu baba bakeneye kuruhuka. Ubwo buryo nta buhanga burimo. Umugabo n’umugore bararyama bagasobekeranya amaguru, akaguru k’umugore kakaba ariko kajya hejuru. Icyo gihe igituba cye kiba cyashyutswe umugabo akajya asunika buhoro buhoro yongera arekeramo imboro atarasohora.

Umugore nawe iyo yumvise umugabo atagisunika akomeza gufunga igituba kugira ngo imboro y’umugabo ntite umushyukwe.

Bose bageraho bagasinzira kuko baba barushye ariko bakaza gukanguka bose babishaka. Icyo gihe umugore aba yagumye ashyutswe kubera ko imboro iba yamugumyemo. Bahita basubira gukora nkuko babyifuza.

Ubwo buryo bukoreshwa ku bantu batari banini yaba umugore cyangwa umugabo kuko inda zabo zababuza kwegerana bigatuma n’imboro idashobora kugera mu gituba neza.

GUSWERA BITA KUNYAZA

N’uburyo bwo guswera bwatsinze kandi bukoreshwa na benshi. Gusa ntabwo abagore bose banyara kimwe. Ubwo buryo hari abatabukunda kuko butera umwanda ku gitanda. Birabujijwe rwose kunyariza ku buriri kuko bitera kunuka, ni yo mpamvu abantu benshi bakoresha ahandi hantu: barakoresha ikirago cyangwa ikiringiti basasa hasi, ku intebe n’ahandi.

Umugabo agafata imboro ye akayikubita mu gituba no kuri rugongo by’umugore dore ko umushishi w’umushino udashira inogonora! Umugore ahita yumva uburyohe bwinshi, igituba nacyo kigahita gisesa ibinyare byinshi biza bishyushe. Umugabo nawe ahita yumva aryohewe cyane asa n’uwatwawe n’uburyohe atazi aho ari n’ibyo arimo gukora.

Iyo umugabo anyaza yirinda ko imboro ye igwa kandi agakoresha imboro ngufi kugira ngo ntaruhe vuba kandi abone aho afata.

Iyo ushaka kunyaza neza umugore yicara ku murere w’igitanda agafungura amaguru, igituba cyikaza imbere, akaryama agaramye, nawe ugapfukama hasi ku buryo imboro yawe iteganye n’igituba cye ku buryo bworoshye, ubundi imboro ukayihata rugongo akanyara kugeza ubwo zimushiriyemo agasohora.

Abagore banini kubanyaza birakomeye.Wirinda kumwicaza k uko igituba cye utagishyikira neza. Ahubwo yakwicara yegamiye urukuta cyangwa ikindi kintu asa n’ugaramye ukamuturuka imbere ukamunyaza zikamushiramo.

Ubwo buryo ni bwo bakoresha mu kunyaza umugore ufite inda ikuze.

Ushobora no kumugarika ariko ukamutega ikintu munsi y’ikibuno giteye nk’umusego kugira ngo hagati y’amaguru higire hejuru gutyo n’amatako ye abyibushe afunguke igituba kize imbere. Icyo gihe umugabo asa n’uwunamye hejuru y’umugore akamunyaza bihagije.

Kunyaza n’uburyo bwiza cyane. Umugore utanyara baramwanga kandi akunda gufuha agashavuzwa n’ubusa.