Kunyaza
Category: kunyaza
GUSWERA BITA KUNYAZA
N’uburyo bwo guswera bwatsinze kandi bukoreshwa na benshi. Gusa ntabwo abagore bose banyara kimwe. Ubwo buryo hari abatabukunda kuko butera umwanda ku gitanda. Birabujijwe rwose kunyariza ku buriri kuko bitera kunuka, ni yo mpamvu abantu benshi bakoresha ahandi hantu: barakoresha ikirago cyangwa ikiringiti basasa hasi, ku intebe n’ahandi.
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Umugabo agafata imboro ye akayikubita mu gituba no kuri rugongo by’umugore dore ko umushishi w’umushino udashira inogonora! Umugore ahita yumva uburyohe bwinshi, igituba nacyo kigahita gisesa ibinyare byinshi biza bishyushe. Umugabo nawe ahita yumva aryohewe cyane asa n’uwatwawe n’uburyohe atazi aho ari n’ibyo arimo gukora.
Iyo umugabo anyaza yirinda ko imboro ye igwa kandi agakoresha imboro ngufi kugira ngo ntaruhe vuba kandi abone aho afata.
Iyo ushaka kunyaza neza umugore yicara ku murere w’igitanda agafungura amaguru, igituba cyikaza imbere, akaryama agaramye, nawe ugapfukama hasi ku buryo imboro yawe iteganye n’igituba cye ku buryo bworoshye, ubundi imboro ukayihata rugongo akanyara kugeza ubwo zimushiriyemo agasohora.
Abagore banini kubanyaza birakomeye.Wirinda kumwicaza k uko igituba cye utagishyikira neza. Ahubwo yakwicara yegamiye urukuta cyangwa ikindi kintu asa n’ugaramye ukamuturuka imbere ukamunyaza zikamushiramo.
Ubwo buryo ni bwo bakoresha mu kunyaza umugore ufite inda ikuze.
Ushobora no kumugarika ariko ukamutega ikintu munsi y’ikibuno giteye nk’umusego kugira ngo hagati y’amaguru higire hejuru gutyo n’amatako ye abyibushe afunguke igituba kize imbere. Icyo gihe umugabo asa n’uwunamye hejuru y’umugore akamunyaza bihagije.
Kunyaza n’uburyo bwiza cyane. Umugore utanyara baramwanga kandi akunda gufuha agashavuzwa n’ubusa.
IBITEKEREZO KU KUNYAZA
MBESE UMUMUGORE WANJYE/INSHUTI YANJYE Y’UMUKOBWA BASHOBORA KUNYARA?
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Mbere na mbere wowe muhungu cyangwa mugabo banza ubwawe wikure mu mutwe ko umugore atanyara. Wemere ko anyara kandi ko niba atanyara azanyara nimumara kubimenyera no kubigerageza inshuro nyinshi kandi wige kunyaza kuko umugore ntapfa kunyara aranyazwa.Umugore na we agomba kwikuramo atanyara.Iyo utangiye uvuga ko utanyara bishobora gutuma bikugora kunyara, iby’igitsina n’ibintu bikorerwa mu bwonko. Urage rero wigenzura mu mitekerereze kuko uko umuntu yitekereza ni ko aba ari.
ICYITONDERWA
Guswera no kunyaza ntabwo byoroshye nko kubivuga mu rurimi.Ni ngombwa kumenya kubikora kugira ngo ushimishanye n’uwo mubikorana,iyo bidashobotse ashobora kujya kubihiga aho akeka ko yabibona, umubano ukaba wakwangirika kubera ubuswa.Mbere yo guswera no kunyaza mugomba kubanza mukitegura ,mukaganira neza,mugakuraho inzitizi izo ari zo zose zatuma mudakundana cyane ku buryo mwimariranamo kuko ‘ijambo ribi rivana imboro mu gituba’.
Mugabo ugomba kwereka umugore ko umukunda,ukamushimashima,ukamusoma,ushobora no kumubwira mbere y’igihe ko wifuza imibonano umubiri we ukaba witegura kukwakira.Uswerwa nawe akerekana ko ashimishijwe n’ibyo arimo,akanyongera umugabo, ukamukorakora.
Iyo guswerana byateguwe neza, nta kabuza biraryoha kuko ushaka umushaka asanga umweko woroshye ushaka umushaka asanga umweko woroshye’. Naho ubundi nugenda ugafata umugore wawe cyangwa inshuti yawe y’umukobwa ugahita ugarika ugatangira guhonda imboro kuri rugongo utamuteguje ngo ni uko wabisomye ushobora kumugirira nabi utabishakaga. Umubiri ufite uko witwara tugomba kubyubaha.
ITANGAZO:guswera no kunyaza ni byiza ariko uramenye uwo mu bikorana ni nde.Birabujijwe rwose kunyaza indayi kuko ushobora kubyanduriramo SIDA n’izindi ndwara z’ibitsina
KUNYAZA BITA GUKAMA
Ufata imboro ishyutswe ukayinjiza mu marebe y’igituba maze ugafata imishino ukayikurura usa n’uyipima ku mboro maze ukayifatana n’imboro ukazunguza umanura uzamura utambitse ariko ukoza imboro kuri rugongo. Imishino ihita ireta
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KUNYAZA BITA KUNYATIRIZA
Ni uburyo buryohera abagore: ukubita imboro hagati y’imishino yombi no kuri rugongo maze ukajya uzamura umanura icyo gihe umugore aritsa ahumeka ukabona ko aryohewe,ubikora nk’imashini ntumutekereze kugera aho amisha ibikari bishyushye inshuro zose ushaka
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